Factors of emotional divorce

 Emotional divorce

Emotional divorce has challenged many families and plays an important role in endangering the health of the family and society.

One of the important issues in couples' relationships that needs to be addressed is the issue of emotional divorce, which has challenged many families and turned the Family hot spot into coldness and indifference, and plays an important role in endangering health of the family and society.

In an emotional divorce, the couple lives together and under one roof, while the communication between them is completely cut off and there is no verbal, physical, or emotional communication between them and they continue to live without desire and consent and only They tolerate each other and, in many cases, do not divorce because of maintaining their appearance and reputation.

Of course, there are several factors that influence the formation and formation of emotional divorce, some of which we will mention:

1-One or both couples are not committed to each other:

When couples are looking for a relationship outside of their own and their mind and heart are involved with someone other than their spouse, over time they become reluctant towards their spouse and may seek to relax with another person and change their priorities. And their spouse is no longer a priority for them and then it’s getting to the point that they become completely indifferent to him or her.

2-Lack of a two-way conversation and lack of verbal and non-verbal communication skills:

When there is no common ground between the couple to talk about, or they do not have the skills to communicate verbally and non-verbally, or they listen to their spouse without interest, and so on, which eventually causes the couple to distance themselves from each other.

3- a sense of inferiority and destroying the personality of one or both spouses:

A wife who constantly seeks to humiliate her husband in public or in private sows the seeds of hatred in her husband and causes her husband to be reluctant towards her.

4-Significant reduction of emotional conversations, and sexual relations that lead to the loss of emotional relationships and loyalty and pave the way for extramarital relationships

5-Ignoring the wishes and expectations of the spouse:

One of the most important factors in a couple's reluctance and finally emotional divorce is the couple's repeated negligence or one of the two; for instance, if one of the spouses does not have sexual desire and does not respond positively to his husband's requests for sexual needs and causes severe psychological pressure on her husband, or constantly ignores his wife's request to go to his parents 'or relatives' house, etc.

6- lack of boundaries in couples' relationships with others:

If couples do not define boundaries in life and allow others to interfere, it will lead to the disintegration of their lives, and couples may become discouraged toward each other.

7- Couples do not respect each other:

All human beings need to be respected in addition to respecting each other.

It is the same in the life of a couple; Each needs to be respected and understood by the other, but couples who do not see each other's efforts, do not appreciate each other, do not respect each other, and do not understand each other and become discouraged over time

8- Unforgiveness and resentment:

Spouses who cannot forgive each other and are constantly looking for resentment and revenge, this causes them to become reluctant toward each other over time and look at each other with rancor and hatred.

many other factors, besides the ones mentioned, cause the establishment of emotional divorce. It is hoped that families will be able to prevent the factors that lead to emotional divorce so that we do not witness emotional divorce and the losses and complications after it.